My thoughts on being a good friend

I have been told before i am not a "good friend". I am sure all of you have at one point. Even if it wasn't to your face. But i think that people views on what a "good friend" are now days are so skewed that they don't know good friends from bad ones.

Now everyone has a main friend/group of friends that basically know everything about them. They know when you just want people to lie to you when the shit has hit the fan. They know when you are acting happy and no one sees it. They know it all, and sometimes it gets to be a pain but I think everyone needs that person/persons that they can go to without judgment.

Now, everyone has that one friend that DOESN'T know them as well as the first but they are so much fun to hang out with that you really don't care. but would you go to this person for advice? Would you go to this person when you have a problem. Not really. cause alot of the time if you do, they will change the subject and avoid the conversation.

A real good friend will tell you when you are fucking up, when you are doing stupid shit that is out of character. When you are being unrealistic about choices. When you need to face your problems when you are avoiding them.

THIS is when your pride gets you. ALOT of people hold themselves so high that when they need help they won't take it. That when they have problems they won't share and instead wallow in their own self pity cause they don't know the difference between good and bad friends.


I hope this has helped someone.

Because a GOOD friend would not sit back and watch you crumble.

my future saturday videos....

so yeah....i still am not sure if i am going to keep Slaughter Saturdays....though i am totally doing it this Saturday!! one of the people who sent me questions fro my Wednesday video........CORRECTED MY OPINION..... I did not know that was possible. so yeah...there is one topic....

but i donno.... I don't want to do odd new topics cause...well...i don't watch the news. It makes me mad. Plus that is PhillyD's thing.

so you guys got any ideas??

maybe somthing horror related....the genre is WIDE.


oh well watch reachel getting married. later!

My F---ed up day of F---ed up thoughts

Have you ever had a day where nothing detrimentally bad happens but you just keep thinking of really shitty thoughts or memories.

I really hate days like this.

Like as some of you have seen i DO have a boyfriend. And yes we are serious but i NEVER make my status 'Love misses her john-y-poo!!! I want him to come home!'

And then like 2 hours later they change ONE FUCKING WORD. 'Want' to 'Need'.

SERIOUSLY!!!!

THAT is seriously one of the most ANNOYING things anyone can possibility do. like I don't care if i would take a bullet for you. Do that....I'll push you in front of a moving bus.

This also goes for the exact opposite people too.

If you are single and constantly on your status it says 'Love fucking hates being alone. I want to kill couples.'

And then like 2 hours later they change ONE FUCKING WORD. 'Couples' to 'Myself'.

FOR FUCKS SAKE!!!

Stop being miserable. I was single for a year and a half and NEVER posted shit like that. and by single I mean not even a date. Mainly by choice. the whining is JUST as annoying as the gooshy love fucks are. And I will push you in front of the bus too. You will just die sad and alone.


wow....i just read all this...very cynical. But very true.

HA!

My S.Darko Movie buzz

So I have just watched the trailer for "S.Darko", the sequel to cult film "Donnie Darko".

I am extremely surprised in the fact that they are even MAKING a sequel. It truly seemed like a movie left without the possibility of a sequel....

Now when I first found out they were making "S.Darko" I DID NOT want to go see it. I knew they were just going to ruin it. but now that I have seen the trailer I am on the fence.

The cast alone has me intrigued.

FIRST AND FOR MOST- Daveigh Chase DOES play Samantha Darko (who the movie is based on.) Which is quite a shock and is delightful. I mean seriously she is not the little girl we remeber from "The Ring" and D.D. a few years ago. I can already hear My friends making sex jokes about her.
Next, Ed Westwick from the CW's Gossip Girl is in this playing Randy, which i giggle at due to the parallel of his sex crazy character on TV.
One Tree Hill's James Lafferty is also in this. Now this has me wondering is the CW in on this shit?
And...what!? Jasper from Twilight? Seriously! Jackson Rathbone plays Jeremey in the new movie. Among other b and c list actors the movie looks MUCH more mainstream then the original movie with on screen heart throb, Jake Gyllenhaal.

Now I think I may go and see it, at least for S&G.
If you guys want to see...Here is the link to IBMD and also here is the trailer.
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1231277/